I AM TEMPTED TO CHECK MY HUSBAND'S PHONE.

These days, husband's phone is always ringing and each time he wants to take certain calls, he excuses himself and leaves the room. He takes his call anytime even in the middle of the night, the text messages never stop coming and quite frankly, I've had it up to here i'm about to loose it. I am a good woman I don't want to throw tantrums or make a mountain out of a molehill. It may be harmless calls and texts but i can't resist the urge not to go through his phone anymore.

An opportunity created itself when one day, he left for work and forgot his phone on the dresser. Eheeeeh, my opportunity has finally come. So I grabbed the phone and rushed into my bathroom to have my way with his phone.

I unlocked his phone but just stared at the home screen. For some reason, I couldn't bring myself to tap on the text message icon neither could i bring myself to go through his phone logs.

What if there's another woman in my husband's life? Does he have other children outside? If I check his phone and find something unacceptable, should I confront him?
And if I confront him, will he be sorry or will we have a nasty crack in our marriage that will somehow lead to my exit from this marriage?

All these questions may all only be in my head, there may be nothing fishy going on. I love and trust my husband and I don't want anything that will put a tension in our relationship.

Am at a crossroads, should I go ahead and check his phone or should I just let sleeping dogs lie. I honestly don't need anything that will cause me heart break.
What should I do?
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She was still in her bathroom when she called to tell me this.
Every marriage should be as transparent as possible. Every couple should have nothing to hide from each other BUT this is not absolute.

For a fact, some people don't care if their phones are checked but a whole lot more people will not take it lightly if their phones are tampered with. That's why is a personal property so, unauthorised persons should back off.

In summary I tell her to step out of her bathroom and let her husband's phone be. If she is really bothered with the manner her husband uses his phone, then she should have had a heart to heart talk with him since last year.  Better yet, she should occupy her mind and time with more productive things.